Relationship's

Relationship's aren't like they use to be. Before cell phone's and the Internet people had to go out and meet someone. They had to interact with other's. These days people meet online for the most part.40 Million American's use online dating service's. That's 40 million lazy ass people. People who are to lazy or scared to go out into the real world and interact with someone. They are relying on the Internet, which isn't safe at all, because you don't know who your really talking to. You don't really know who your talking to unless you arrange a face to face "date", or let's say they Skype or use some kind of video interaction. Those I can understand using and doing but if someone your talking to refuses to do either that should put up a red flag. People today are so screwed up in so many ways. You have your faithful people , your cheaters, your player's, your creep's and your omg  are you serious people. That's why I believe using the internet can be good and bad. If there aren't any "red flag's" then your good, but if there are get the hell outta dodge. You have to learn to trust and get out there. Be old school. After all this is the Crazy world we all call home .  

Boundaries

In my opinion Friends have boundaries. Like you don't date your best friend's brother/sister. You don't get upset and so to say "shut down" when something happens that each other doesn't agree with. Friend's especially so called "best friend's" are suppose to love and protect and support each other in every way, or at least work through the disagreements. Friends to me are extended family. Someone we love and care for just as much as our own families. I have noticed with my friends I am the go to person when they need advice, or a shoulder to cry on , or even to vent about something. I've been told that I care way to much about everyone else and not enough about myself, and to be honest its true. I repeatedly say I'm going to stop helping everyone and caring and focus on myself but I can't. I'm to big hearted to be able to do that. I hang my heart out on my sleeve for all to see. Many time's this has came back to bite me in the ass. But i can't change who I am, I love helping other's. Its just who and how I am. #InThisCrazyWorldWeCallHome

Chlidren

Children are a gift we give ourselves. Our children will be that little angel who we will love unconditionally for the rest of our life's. They shouldn't be abused , neglected, or judged. No one is perfect. God didn't make us perfect for a reason. As I take the next step in my life I have decided to have a child in the near future. To have a piece of myself to share with the world , to love and spoil. My child will not have to deal with the many thing's I had to encounter as a child. I believe as a parent it is our obligation to teach our children right and wrong and guide them in the right direction and if the choose to a different path to follow not to judge them but love and support them more . Stand by your kids and never let them forget where home is. Always have your door open for them. Show them they are loved and important, tell them they will grow in to a wonderful person. Let's face it our children wont be picture perfect. We can only hope that they become like us, but if they don't it's ok . Children Are A GIFT ,cherrish them. #CrazyWorldWeCallHome

Bullshit Treatment

I could sit here and blog about how well life is or that all are equal... Reality is both are false. I say this because as A lesbian I don't have equal rights here in North Carolina . At least not yet. But anyway my life is far from perfect and it won't ever be perfect because nothing or no one is perfect. I have had a very ruff life growing up and since I've come out to my parents things have changed and the reality of people perspective's on there children when they don't become what they want them to has become clear. If we don't become the so called "perfect" image that they've spent our life's so far trying so hard create, then we are no good to them. They can't accept us for who we are. I'm an example in a few ways. My mother degraded me everyday for months on end . My father and Step mother dealt with my sexuality until I was able to date someone local, therefore they then kicked me out of there home knowing I had no one and no where to go to. Here it is exactly one month today. And I have come to realize that this world isn't just the crazy world we call home , it is the most judgmental and politically incorrect place and makes no since to me why God has allowed us to receive this punishment and pain because bible throwing assholes can't accept us for who we are. #CrazyFuckedUpWorld

Immature people

Whats does the past mean to you? To me it means certain thing's should me remembered and loved . The other pieces of your past sound be just that ... the PAST. I have an ex who today thought it would be in her best interest to judge me on a certain piece of my past and refused to leave well enough alone like she should have. She decided to judge me on this subject that she knows absolutely nothing about , and showed how immature she really is by have her friend's get involved . Immaturity in these almost adults show's that they won't be growing up and time soon. One day this immaturity will reflect on them and there hateful words will come back to bite them in the ass. Because Karma is a bitch. #CrazyWorldWeCallHome

"DRAMA"

dose anyone really know why this world has to have drama? i really think that some people live for the latest drama thats going around. for me i know some one who has to live away from there parents with another family member because of some problems at home. but now the people she lives with are trying to screw her life up as much as they can because they get in trouble more than she dose. and if the lies from these people come out she wont be able to see her parents anymore,or for a while. i wish that this "crazy world we call home" was drama free and that we could all just live peaceful,happy lives together!!! pray for those in need,and lets all be drama free!!!!

Family Matters !!

Family! Almost everyone has one. With out them what would we have? For all of us who are lucky to have mothers and fathers and all of are extended family we really don't think about those who don't. Im talking about the children in foster care who don't have a home or family to call there own. As of 2005 their were approximately 513,000 children in foster care in the United States. Thats roughly 7 out of every 1000 American children. 54% of those children earn a high school diploma, 2% earn a Bachelors degree or higher. 84% become parents to soon, exposing their children to a repeated cycle of neglect and abuse. Another 51% are unemployed, 30% have no health insurance, and 30% receive public assistance. If people would show these children as much love and support that our families show us there would be no problems  with children being un loved. Then there would be more children graduating from high school and then later on collage. All this crazy world we call home needs is love and support.