Boundaries

In my opinion Friends have boundaries. Like you don't date your best friend's brother/sister. You don't get upset and so to say "shut down" when something happens that each other doesn't agree with. Friend's especially so called "best friend's" are suppose to love and protect and support each other in every way, or at least work through the disagreements. Friends to me are extended family. Someone we love and care for just as much as our own families. I have noticed with my friends I am the go to person when they need advice, or a shoulder to cry on , or even to vent about something. I've been told that I care way to much about everyone else and not enough about myself, and to be honest its true. I repeatedly say I'm going to stop helping everyone and caring and focus on myself but I can't. I'm to big hearted to be able to do that. I hang my heart out on my sleeve for all to see. Many time's this has came back to bite me in the ass. But i can't change who I am, I love helping other's. Its just who and how I am. #InThisCrazyWorldWeCallHome